The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 3:48 PM on Wednesday, March 11th, 2026
My dad was a serial cheater I grow up in a household where I wished my mom would of left my dad. She didn’t until I was mid twenties.
This says volumes.
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Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
Jambomo ( member #74853) posted at 7:26 PM on Saturday, March 21st, 2026
I just feel so stuck, I have glimpses of happiness and think okay we could try to make this work and last year I would of put my all in to it.
Missmee, I know this is hard but you need to realise this is no longer just about his infidelity. He is an abusive man and you are in an abusive relationship. You should never try to reconcile with someone who abuses you.
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Missmee (original poster member #86349) posted at 10:47 PM on Monday, March 23rd, 2026
My thinking is more clearer. I can’t believe what he did I can’t believe what he put me through and I can’t believe I allowed it. He has agreed to move out he’s going to stay with family. He seems to think i
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 12:10 AM on Tuesday, March 24th, 2026
HI MISSME.
Sorry to hear things are at this stage, but you may find clarity with him out of the house. Hang in there.
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
